I do not want hair extensions; I just want to know ways of growing my hair without having it in a messy form. Ii have always enjoyed the thought of having long hair. I just could not get it to be long. What are the best men long hair solutions? I have not been able to maintain my hair. Somehow I feel nothing really suites my hair. Give me some ideas and tell me how long it will take for my short hair to grow. My hair comes till the end of my ears. I want it long enough to make a ponytail.