my hair is short and it has ben a very long time since my hair has remained short.it makes me think that is there not any way that i can grow my hair.i dont want to use these chemicaly induced shampoos that can only damage your hair in the long run,i want instead to grow my hair in a naturalistic fashion.so my mother who has such long,black and strong hair told me to use Coconut Oil.in what way does Coconut Oil help in the growth of hair and also in which areas of the scalp do you apply Coconut Oil to get long and conditioned silky hair?